You’re Not an ATM: 5 Tips for Teaching Your Kids the Value of Work

“妈妈,能给我五块钱吗??” These words will be heard by all parents at some point. Every parent must decide—and fairly early on—how to answer and handle being a walking, breathing ATM. Children need to be taught the value of work and the value of money. It is important children learn not only by seeing but also by doing.

教的建模

The first step in this all-important process is to teach by doing. Instill at a young age your own strong work ethic, both professionally and at home. Encourage your kids to pitch in around the house. A strong work ethic is contagious and if you are able to instill this concept now, by the time money comes into the picture, 工作部分已经教过了.

工作是为了娱乐

Before your kids understand the value of professional work, they see your work around the house. 只是看你工作, your kids will begin to understand that part of life is working and that you enjoy doing it. By demonstrating that work is fun with intrinsic value, later on it won’t become all about the money.

工作也是为了钱

Kids often don’t understand why mom and dad leave the house everyday. Only when they are older do they understand their parents leave to go to work and work is how they are able to buy food and clothes for the family. If you have built up a work ethic in your children, the lesson only gets stronger once you add in allowance. Doling out allowance can lead to real conversations with your kids about the costs of things in life.

行贿不允许

在教导金钱的真正价值, do not use money as a way to encourage and enhance the work or work ethic of your children. For instance, “If you get all your chores done by 7 p.m.,皇冠体育app一起去吃冰激凌.” That teaches that only the end result matters. By doing this, you have enhanced the money in the equation and diminished the work ethic. 然而, using money to reward quality work and strong work ethic can help instill the right lessons about work.

鼓励兼职工作

If the last four steps have taught the value of hard work and what money is used for, a part-time job is the logical final step. There are different jobs that make sense to both encourage work ethic and help them earn their own money. This likely will be a stressful time for the both of you, but a part-time job also teaches time management. The first job is going to be rough as your kids learn about “real” hard work; however, this job will go far in improving their self-esteem and self-worth.

Teaching your kids the value of work will not only reduce their dependence on you as their personal ATM, but it will also increase and encourage their respect for hard work— a lesson for life.

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